Happy Mother’s Day!

Today is Mother’s Day in United States and we want to take the time to thank all mothers for the often unrecognized work they do. (It is unrecognized and somewhat unappreciated until people have kids of their own and see how tough it is.)

The history of Mother’s Day is rather interesting.

Celebrations of mothers and motherhood can be traced back to the ancient Greeks and Romans, who held festivals in honor of the mother goddesses Rhea and Cybele, but the clearest modern precedent for Mother’s Day is the early Christian festival known as “Mothering Sunday.”

Once a major tradition in the United Kingdom and parts of Europe, this celebration fell on the fourth Sunday in Lent and was originally seen as a time when the faithful would return to their “mother church”—the main church in the vicinity of their home—for a special service.

Over time the Mothering Sunday tradition shifted into a more secular holiday, and children would present their mothers with flowers and other tokens of appreciation. This custom eventually faded in popularity before merging with the American Mother’s Day in the 1930s and 1940s.

The origins of Mother’s Day as celebrated in the United States date back to the 19th century. In the years before the Civil War, Ann Reeves Jarvis of West Virginia helped start “Mothers’ Day Work Clubs” to teach local women how to properly care for their children.

These clubs later became a unifying force in a region of the country still divided over the Civil War. In 1868 Jarvis organized “Mothers’ Friendship Day,” at which mothers gathered with former Union and Confederate soldiers to promote reconciliation.

Another precursor to Mother’s Day came from the abolitionist and suffragette Julia Ward Howe. In 1870 Howe wrote the “Mother’s Day Proclamation,” a call to action that asked mothers to unite in promoting world peace. In 1873 Howe campaigned for a “Mother’s Peace Day” to be celebrated every June 2.

Other early Mother’s Day pioneers include Juliet Calhoun Blakely, a temperance activist who inspired a local Mother’s Day in Albion, Michigan, in the 1870s. The duo of Mary Towles Sasseen and Frank Hering, meanwhile, both worked to organize a Mothers’ Day in the late 19th and early 20th centuries. Some have even called Hering “the father of Mothers’ Day.”

The official Mother’s Day holiday arose in the 1900s as a result of the efforts of Anna Jarvis, daughter of Ann Reeves Jarvis. Following her mother’s 1905 death, Anna Jarvis conceived of Mother’s Day as a way of honoring the sacrifices mothers made for their children.

After gaining financial backing from a Philadelphia department store owner named John Wanamaker, in May 1908 she organized the first official Mother’s Day celebration at a Methodist church in Grafton, West Virginia. That same day also saw thousands of people attend a Mother’s Day event at one of Wanamaker’s retail stores in Philadelphia.

Following the success of her first Mother’s Day, Jarvis—who remained unmarried and childless her whole life—resolved to see her holiday added to the national calendar. Arguing that American holidays were biased toward male achievements, she started a massive letter writing campaign to newspapers and prominent politicians urging the adoption of a special day honoring motherhood.

By 1912 many states, towns and churches had adopted Mother’s Day as an annual holiday, and Jarvis had established the Mother’s Day International Association to help promote her cause. Her persistence paid off in 1914 when President Woodrow Wilson signed a measure officially establishing the second Sunday in May as Mother’s Day.

So spend the day with your mom, or call her if she is not in your area. If your mother is no longer with us, take the time to remember her today.

No matter what, while we observe Mother’s Day on this particular day, we should remember that mother’s don’t only work, strive, teach and love one day a year.

We should honor and remember mothers year round.

2 Responses to “Happy Mother’s Day!”

  1. Bob Chadwick says:

    I recall a quote, IIRC attributed to “Bear” Bryant, the football coach….. “Call your Mom. I sure wish I could call mine.”

    and may all the mothers, stepmothers, grandmothers, mothers-to-be, and potential mothers have a happy day.

    • AAfterwit says:

      Bob Chadwick,

      We went looking for the quote. It is from a Bell Central South commercial that ran on Mother’s Day:


      One of the first thing we tell our players is to keep in touch with their families. And when our freshmen first arrive, we ask them to write a postcard home right then.

      You know, we keep them pretty busy, but they always have time to pick up the phone and call. And it’s really important to keep in touch.

      Have you called your mama today? I sure wish I could call mine.

      It is said that when the commercial ran, it was such a hit that the phone lines were overwhelmed.

      Thanks for the story.

      A. Afterwit.

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